Acceptance..

So many things come in life and leave. With somethings you get attached very strongly and with some other you don't. Typically things 'coming' in life don't excite/harm you much, but the exit impact depends on how much you were attached to that thing..attachment grows with time..waiting for a particular course of action related to that thing to happen in your life..hoping ki kuch ho sakta hai acha/personal..but Nature has it's own secret plans..and you fight with 'I don't know who' when Nature's plan and your desire go opposite to each other..but at the end we, human beings, have to submit to Nature's plan/decision if we are to evolve and progress..being stubborn and UN-changeable will only harm/deteriorate us in long term..accept whatever Nature has to give you..may be Nature has better plans for you that's why it did not fulfill your desires..may be Nature wants you learn and experience and hence evolve...though this process can be sometimes very very harsh/cruel/unexpected...but accept it...acceptance solves almost half of the problems...but then we, human beings, should try to analyze the events that pained us and try to draw conclusions and get everything clear as time goes on...like where did I make mistake? where did others make mistake? where did not I think from heart/mind and acted like a fool/stubborn?...getting these things clear from the painful events that have happened makes us evolve quickly and avoids the same mistake/event later in life...

memories may bother you as you move on
but you can fight it, come on
accept life as it comes to you
for you don't know what better plans are there for you

that's all for now...